The Bachelor s15e04 Episode Script

I'm thinking I'd rather be nowhere else.
She has those qualities I'm looking for in a wife.
I like you a lot.
when you put yourself out there, A whole new world can be opened to you.
I'm in heaven right now.
I woke up with a black eye, and I'm pissed.
I think michelle's trying to get As much of brad's attention as possible.
Oh,.
I am going to kill you.
What? What are you gonna kill me for? Where are you taking me? I swear on my life, I'm gonna throw up.
I'm really afraid of heights.
I can't do this.
There is no way.
I'm seeing you make connections with certain girls That I feel are emotionally unstable.
I don't know if I'm strong enough for all this.
dealing with ashley h.
Is exhausting.
I hate this.
she just goes haywire.
It sucks.
what? emotions are running high.
Everyone's really starting to feel for him.
Ashley, do you have a second? yes.
Real quickly? Do you mind? Okay.
No.
It's my day.
Why didn't he think of that for me? She scares me.
She scares me.
she is sitting over there Just looking like she's just ready to freaking kill somebody.
Seriously, step back.
Boom! It's all coming up tonight on I can't believe this is happening.
What in the world? I have a black eye.
Like, only me.
Like, who wakes up with a black eye? Like, it's just something that would happen to me.
It is now turning purple.
I don't know what it could be from.
Maybe it's stress.
It is so bizarre.
Who just wakes up with a black eye? oh, my god.
It's, like, a real black eye.
I want to know who kicked my ass in my sleep.
Today I woke up with a black eye, So I think I deserve a one-on-one date with brad.
I'm am gonna have brad kiss my eye, And it will make it better.
Well, ladies, good morning.
Morning.
This week there will be three dates--two one-on-one dates And a group date.
Roses up for grabs on all the dates.
Now I'm sure you've learned by now the one-on-one date is Where you want to be.
But if you do not get a rose, You'll be going home immediately, so if you get One of those dates, you'll need to have your bags packed Because you may not be coming home.
Now as for the dates, who's going, what you'll be doing, You'll find out as the date cards arrive.
whoo-hoo! Yeah.
I have your first one right here.
So enjoy, And I hope to see all of you at the next rose ceremony.
bye.
You all ready? ready.
All right.
Chantal.
Yes! "how deep is your love? Brad.
" I'm so excited! I was really frustrated That chantal got the one-on-one date today.
I better go get ready.
I'm very different than chantal, So if chantal comes home tonight, I will be surprised.
I finally get to have a one-on-one date.
I'm so excited, Like, I'm getting chills just thinking about it.
Today I get him all to myself, and it's huge.
This could be a make-or-break day for my life.
morning, everybody.
hi.
How's everyone doing? I woke up with a black eye.
What did happen to you? I have no idea.
Uh, you okay? yeah.
I'm just confused.
I have no idea how someone gets a black eye In the middle of the night.
I have no idea.
Because it was so over the top, I think michelle's just trying To get as much of brad's attention as possible.
That's, uh, that's strange.
I know.
I really don't even know.
I must've, like, Had a rough night's sleep last night.
I wish I was the one that gave michelle her black eye.
I wanna rip her head off.
Um, okay.
I'm just waiting for our ride.
That's it.
Just hanging out.
do you hear that? I do hear that.
I do hear that.
Is that a helicopter? It sounds like one.
Shut up! Shut up.
Let's go check it out.
Come with me.
Come here.
are you kidding me? Are you kidding me? Hang tight.
Come with me.
Now if this isn't a cool way to pick up a woman, I don't know what is.
I'm going on this amazing date with this amazing guy.
He's picking me up in a helicopter.
How cool is that? Bye, guys.
Bye, ladies.
I do not want chantal To come home with a rose tonight.
I do not like thinking about them flying off on a helicopter And enjoying a magical night somewhere That ends with some sort of make-out.
I'm so excited! oh, my god! This is so cool.
It is cool.
Thanks for coming.
Are you kidding me? I'm ready for a serious relationship, But feeling what I'm feeling for brad scares me to death.
I married my high school sweetheart, So after we got divorced, I hadn't really ever dated before.
So I don't really know what I'm doing.
This date could definitely change my life forever, But I'm just so terrified Of screwing up my opportunity with brad.
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" Look at all those bo-- well, those yachts down there.
Wow.
This is amazing catalina island.
Oh, my god.
This is awesome.
I wanna get this date started.
When I realized that we're going to catalina island, It's amazing, because I'm thinking, you know what? This is like an ultimate getaway.
This is kind of like a little mini vacation, You know, very romantic, so it's definitely the way I want to kick things off with brad.
Wow! I really do feel like we're in another country.
I'm, like, the luckiest girl in the world right now.
I just want to be able to be sweet with him And hang out and get to know him better And feel a little bit of the island romance.
Watch your step.
Be careful.
Okay? Oh, my god.
We're gonna go in the water.
You gonna be all right? Uh, just wait.
oh, no.
I've been waiting To take chantal o.
On a date, one-on-one, for so long.
Come on down.
Chantal's confidence is attractive, But I have something in store for chantal and I That will make us feel like We're completely out of the real world.
I hope she's up for it.
all right, can I tell you now? So we are gonna walk on the sea floor.
Shut up.
This--yeah, I swear to god.
We have helmets.
You're gonna be able to walk Amongst the wildlife.
Yeah, but we need to get dressed.
We need to put on wetsuits.
Yeah.
oh, my god! It's a huge thing to ask me to get in the ocean.
I Don't just do that.
I am so scared of deep water.
It freaks me out, and when I'm in the water, I feel absolute anxiety and terror.
All right? I am so scared.
Be prepared for it to be everywhere.
What, mascara? Oh, yeah.
Thanks for--hey, look-- I don't know if it's because I'm crying Or because, uh, the water.
Don't say that.
I really, really, really don't want to get in that water I can't believe this.
But, like, I'm gonna have to do it and face my fear Because if I just give up And don't do something that scares me, that will show him That I'm not willing to take chances for him.
So I have to do it.
You, like, just breathe in this thing that that's correct.
Just breathe normal.
I am so freaked out.
Knowing that brad's watching me And seeing how I handle myself when I'm, like, so fearful, I'm just like, telling myself, "just do it.
Just do it.
Just do it.
" Each step deeper into that water, I can feel that slow panic.
I'm shaking, and I can't tell if it's 'cause I'm cold Or if it's because I'm just so terrified.
My biggest fear is that I'm gonna go down there And I'm not gonna come back up.
So I get in the water.
I don't know how I do it, but I get in the water.
I did it, Because he's worth it.
I can't believe I'm doing this right now.
Oh, wow.
Look at that.
Oh, my god.
What is that big thing? It's just a little fish.
That's it.
I've got you.
god.
You want to go through or no, not so much? Yeah? Come on.
Let's go.
We're here.
We might as well.
I was so scared to go into the water today, But being down here, it's such an amazing experience.
Oh, wow.
This is awesome.
I'm having fun.
You're doing great.
It's 'cause I got you here.
I look at me having to face my fear and get in that water A lot like I look at love-- when you put yourself out there, A whole new world can be open to you.
This is a pretty awesome first date.
I'm gonna kiss you in the astronaut helmet.
Oh.
I feel like I'm open and ready to falling in love.
I'm in this to find a husband And someone that I can spend the rest of my life with, And brad is that person.
I think that I could be chantal womack, Definitely.
how's your eye? I think it looks better.
mm-hmm.
It looks a lot better.
Keeping it iced, guys.
Oh.
get it.
I want a one-on-one date with brad so badly.
Everything that we've shared together, I already feel a connection, so I feel like It's more important for me to get a one-on-one date More than anyone.
look what I have.
you guys ready? yes.
Okay.
Ashley s Whoo! Stacey yay! Lindsay, me Meghan, alli, Lisa, ashley h.
, Jackie Yes! "let's put our love on the line.
" ohh! I don't want to be on the group date For so many reasons.
I'm just waiting to get that one-on-one date.
There is a really good chance That if I don't get a date this week, Brad might get his own black eye.
this, to me, is almost perfect.
oh, my god.
Exactly.
For real? This is amazing! for real.
Wow! It really is, huh? This is, like, the ultimate, right here.
We're doing, like, the most romantic date ever.
Can I pour you some wine? Yes, that'd be great.
It's like something out of your wildest dreams.
But even though I'm ecstatic And I'm here with this amazing man, I am scared out of my mind right now.
I was in such a long relationship with my ex-husband.
The dating world is definitely out of my comfort zone.
I just have to trust.
I just have to follow my heart, And I hope it doesn't lead me astray.
It's just scary for me because I wouldn't usually put myself In this kind of situation where I could get hurt, But I'm doing it because I think it's worth it.
Well, I appreciate that very much.
Do you want to get married again? Totally want to get married again.
Just--I just--I want that.
I want that relationship.
I want to have that union.
I want to have that person That I come home to at the end of the day that I just, You know, like, I'm so excited to share my life with.
Mm-hmm.
Do you mind me asking about your marriage or not? Not at all.
You sure? 'cause I don't-- I don't Yeah, I want--I want to be open with you.
I don't want to intrude.
God, no.
That's--you should ask me about it.
I was married for four and a half years Okay.
And I was with him for a total of ten years.
What I know about myself now Versus what I knew ten years ago? Night and day.
Yeah.
I know what I want now.
I want a family.
I want kids.
It's all about the right person, and when you find That right person, everything else falls in place.
Yeah.
End of story.
I know that I want that.
Do you want that? I do know, now more than ever, actually, That that's what I want.
I'm just so much more open to that idea.
I truly want to share my life with somebody.
I really do.
brad and I have had an amazing day, And I feel like any time I'm with him, it's right.
And I want to feel that he's feeling for me What I'm feeling for him, but it's scary.
I feel like I'm falling for this man.
This could be real.
I like you a lot.
I like you a lot, too.
No doubt about it.
Absolutely no doubt about it.
What? I'm just not like chantal.
I don't like being compared to chantal, And I don't think that I even--I'm kind of like her.
Like, it's starting to freak me out.
I don't know how to handle it, and I don't think I--like, I seriously think I beat myself up in the middle of the night.
Like, what is that? Like, I wake up with heartburn Oh.
I don't sleep.
You know, I don't eat.
And it's, like, it hurts, you know? But, like, I I didn't come all the way out here to, like, Not give it a chance, you know? Oh, yeah.
Only I feel like it's gonna get harder, You know what I mean? Yeah.
And if you get that one-on-one date, and, like, things go well, It's a million times harder.
Yeah.
I don't think brad is looking for someone like chantal.
And so I think that if she does come home, I don't know what that says about, you know, His connection with me.
I think I just want to be alone for a little bit.
I don't know.
I just think she's loud and hard.
She's just Chantal is very focused on brad, And she's very headstrong, And if she comes home tonight, we all need to watch out.
By the way, I feel like I owe you an apology.
Oh, this is gonna get good.
Let me get-- Let me get comfortable for this.
Ahh! For which--which, uh, which occurrence Are you gonna apologize? Oh, are there multiple? Yeah.
Uh, I'm only gonna apologize for the one I'm truly sorry for, And that was my first impression with you, Which is slapping you.
I-I truly feel really bad about it.
Oh, come on.
No, I do.
I feel bad, because it's, like, It was kind of more playful, and I think I ended up Hitting you harder than I meant to.
Oh, you have a-a great right hook, no doubt about it.
And, um I love the playfulness between chantal and I.
Take that back.
She calls me out, She makes me laugh.
It really is like having a girlfriend.
She puts me in check, and I love it.
Today has felt like Any day in my everyday life.
Does that make sense? No, it does.
Like I've been hanging out It feels real.
With somebody that I've known for years.
I care for you very much, And you're actually a girl That I could see a-a very real relationship happening with.
So I do have a little something For you.
Yes! See the romantic rain coming.
Oh, my god.
You know that's good luck, right? Is it really? Yeah.
I'm gonna stay here, if you don't mind.
Go for it.
Listen, you've made today seem very real for me, Like something that could happen in real life.
And you make me feel like myself.
You make me so comfortable.
I want to continue this, Badly, with you.
I really do.
Chantal, will you accept this rose? Of course.
Thank you very much.
You better accept the damn rose.
You always say that to me.
I mean, really, Do you think I'm gonna ever turn it down? Will you just please-- I'm crazy about you.
Will you just stop? Will you please quit talking and just kiss me, please? Aah! That was all you had to say.
Is that all it takes? Mm-hmm.
I feel truly blessed to have gotten a rose today And to feel like this man that I have feelings for Is feeling something for me.
I went in tonight thinking Tonight is a make-or-break it night, And I feel like it turned out to be a "make it" night.
I need to get you out of the rain.
I don't want this night to end with chantal, not at all.
Right now, how I'm feeling, Is I want to grab chantal's hand and run away.
This is freakin' crazy.
I'm kind of cold in here, though.
Are you? I-I'm gonna need some warmth.
I'll take any time I can get with brad, at this point.
If it means staying over, cuddling all night, I'm down.
I want to spend as much time as I can with this man Before I have to share him with the other girls again.
I want him to fall in love with me.
That's what I want.
I'm in heaven right now.
I don't want to leave you.
No one said you had to.
Thank you, god, for the rain.
No kidding.
Coming up Hey, everybody.
It's "loveline.
" Our guest tonight--brad womack.
I brought these women to talk to dr.
Drew.
I'm hoping to create an environment that these women Can really open up to me.
Show of hands--who's cheated? Who has cheated? because there's eight other girls here, I very badly need time with brad tonight.
Today was actually really good.
I'm sorry.
I mean, I literally just sat down.
Like, we just sat down.
my god, my good old buddy dr.
Drew-- He opened up a can of worms here.
I didn't mean to interrupt.
That's the name of the game.
You, one-on-one-- 20 seconds.
20 seconds? What the? We're all-- We're not getting time.
You're--I'm not getting time.
date time! I'm so excited for the group date today.
I think it's gonna be really cool.
to a fabulous date.
yeah.
cheers.
Nine girls is still a lot of girls, so I'm just gonna Have to get my quality time in there with him, To make sure that I-I stand out.
We pull up to this building.
We still have no idea what's going on.
Hey! we walk in and we see brad standing there What's up? Right in front of their little sign That says "'loveline' with mike & dr.
Drew.
" How are you? Come on.
It's dr.
Drew.
Ah! Hey, stace.
How are you? Oh, my god.
Awesome! "loveline" is a live radio show that deals With relationships and dating.
How are you? I had no idea what was gonna happen, But I was really excited to see brad, So I'm really happy right now.
Obviously, we are in the studios Of the famous "loveline" radio show.
You're about to get to talk to both dr.
Drew and mike.
so you can ask any questions that you may have about me, About what you're looking for, and I'm gonna do the same thing.
Let's go in the studio, please.
I'll be honest.
In therapy, I learned to open up, so today I'm hoping to create An environment that these women can really open up to me.
The fact that they have a chance to talk to dr.
Drew Will allow them to have a safe space, A chance to actually open up And tell me their innermost thoughts and feelings.
That's what it's all about.
hey, everybody.
It's "loveline.
" Our guests tonight--brad womack, the bachelor himself, And all his ladies.
Welcome to the show, brad.
Thank you so much.
I'm a huge fan, I have to admit that.
So it's an honor to be here.
I appreciate it, guys.
It's our pleasure.
How's this going so far for you? It's still a little overwhelming.
We're gonna talk to you and we're gonna talk To all the women today.
Uh-oh.
Boy, it's intense.
It is.
Are there things you need from us to help sort through With the group that's here? I'll tell you what.
My main concern is to know That I'm compatible with one if not all of the ladies here, 'cause if I'm not, I'll walk, And I would hope that they would walk, too.
I wish I could hear what brad was saying right now.
The room that we're supposed to wait in is soundproof, So we can't hear anything.
I'm nervous.
better off not knowing.
I don't even wanna know.
some girls are really nervous.
Dr.
Drew--he asks really tough questions.
For some girls, it's really hard to open up And talk about their feelings, But this is a once-in-a lifetime kind of opportunity To really get some good feedback, Because I have absolutely nothing to hide.
That I'm not gonna get a one-on-one date.
What will you do if you don't? Cry.
If I don't get a-a date this week, It will suck.
I won't get a chance to have another date For another week.
It's, like, so hard to just sit around and watch Everyone, like, have this relationship grow with him.
For me, the one-on-one date changed everything.
For you, going into the one-on-one date, Your whole mindset will change.
Now all I need is the date.
Yeah.
come on in, ladies.
Dr.
Drew and mike, ladies.
come on in.
Have a seat.
I'm glad we're all in here together.
I know.
I'm nervous just because I think I'm one of the people That has a sense of, uh, how reputable dr.
Drew is, And I think that this can leave us very vulnerable, very open, And, um, I wasn't really sure what he was gonna ask us.
I just got really nervous when I came in.
Just coming in? I could imagine.
Yeah.
I was, like, okay in there, and then we come in here.
Are you guys all physically attracted to, uh, brad? Very.
Yeah.
Yeah, me, too.
We're having fun, but this is very serious to me.
It's a very rare opportunity to sit down With two experts that solve people's problems about love, So if any of these women hold back, I'm gonna wonder if they're here for the right reasons.
I have a lot of pressure on me Because of last time.
I want everyone to know I really am here for the right reasons.
You know, never in my life have I cheated on a woman-- Never one time, not a single time in my life.
Not even as an eighth grade kid Did I kiss another girl on the football field.
Have you been cheated on? Yeah, I have.
Yeah.
show of hands-- who's cheated? Everybody talks about being cheated on.
Who has cheated? I've cheated before.
Yeah? Why'd you do that? Because in college I was being Drunk and stupid and you have-- you shouldn't have been in a relationship, it sounds like.
You shouldn't have been, but you didn't know.
Exactly.
When you're in college and you're in a relationship When you're in college, you don't know.
It's volatile.
And if you mess up, it's, "well, it's a college relationship," You know? you're right.
It's wrong, And, uh, it's good that you admitted it.
stacey admitted that she had cheated before, And that was all about being honest.
That's so important to me.
Dr.
Drew is allowing these women to open up to me More than they would ever open up to me on any other date.
So now we're just curious, because you have gone On one-on-one dates with a few girls-- All amazing, but very different Yeah.
So I think we're all questioning what is your type? I know exactly what I want, and it's not a specific type.
Mm-hmm.
I want to form a very true connection, Something with substance.
And last time, I don't know If I allowed myself to truly explore Something that could be real.
I'll be very honest-- I want someone that I can be myself around And hopefully, you guys are looking for the same thing.
I-I would listen to him, what he's-- That has come up several times-- "I want to be myself.
" yeah.
"I want to be me, whatever that is.
" yeah.
It's tough to do, yeah.
Not only accepted, but you want to be accepted and appreciated.
Sure.
It's hard for us.
Like, we don't know how you feel, So it's, like, we don't want to put ourselves out there.
So I see myself retracting big-time.
Okay.
And I just--I want to be able to give everything, but it's hard.
Okay.
Can I address that really quickly? Okay, yeah.
Last time I was on the show, I think that I did have walls up, I didn't put myself out there, Like you're explaining you're doing, that you're pulling back.
If you do that, something may or may not happen That should have, and you're gonna walk away with regrets.
And trust me when I say this, you don't want to do that.
Mm-hmm.
I promise you.
okay.
I just want to say, like, I'm really interested in you, And I get so nervous about, you know, I get a 5 or 10-minute shot with you every once in a while.
Right.
And I get so concerned about composing This perfect ten minutes That I-I feel as though you have no idea who I really am.
Right.
And I think we're similar in that we try To be very composed a lot.
Right.
And--and I just--I want the chance to get to know you For real, and I I'm excited to do that.
I don't know what more I can say, But I just-- I get nervous around you, And my heart's racing.
I love hearing that.
I feel the exact same way.
Give me the chance to make some time with you.
Please give me the chance to do that, Because I feel the same way about you.
I'd love that.
I'll say it in front of everybody.
I mean that.
To me, this is very real.
wow.
This date was a perfect idea.
Taking these women to talk to dr.
Drew Has allowed them to really open up, And they're telling me so many things, and I'm loving it.
I cannot wait to see where these relationships go from here.
Coming up dealing with ashley h.
Is exhausting.
When she's on a group date, she just goes haywire.
I hate this.
I had an amazing kiss with britt, and I turn around And I see ashley h.
Standing there.
Honestly, I've never experienced all these emotions before.
It sucks.
What? Hey.
How is everybody? It's my day.
Nothing is gonna stop me today.
Ashley, you have a second, real quickly? Yes.
if I don't get the rose because brad was still Dealing with ashley h.
's issues, I would elbow ashley h.
In the face.
my humble abode.
oh! Wow.
Taking these women to see dr.
Drew Was the best idea I could've had.
I've never had these women more engaged in me than before now.
this is so sweet.
all right, I'm moving in.
We all got so much closer today, And tonight, it's going to be an amazing party.
I had fun with dr.
Drew and mike.
That was fun.
I'm glad everyone felt comfortable.
I just think that it was really great That you opened up in front of all of us.
It gave us a really good idea of who you are, and, like, What you're about, and, yeah, it was really nice to see and hear.
Well, thank you very much.
Just listening to brad during dr.
Drew, He really opened up, and I think a lot of us kinda really, like, Looked back and him and we're like, "wow.
You're a really great guy.
" I really want to get that time to really explore this And really see where this could go.
I can't thank each of you enough.
I really can't.
It's been a great day.
I feel good.
Do you guys feel good? Good.
I do want to sit down And have some one-on-one time with brad.
But unfortunately, we all want to talk to brad.
So I'm ready to do anything it takes to get some time.
Brad, can I have you for, like, two seconds? Uh, yeah, absolutely.
Come on.
Follow me.
ohh! Yeah, right away, within five minutes, He was off with one of with the girls.
I'm not a jealous person, but these feelings Are erupting from me here.
We know that we don't have all night to spend with brad.
We know that time is kinda running out, So getting alone time with him is gonna be difficult.
How'd you feel about today? Did you feel kinda vulnerable, just talking to us? A lot of tough questions.
I kinda felt like we were all coming at you, You know, for a little bit of time, But I thought you did a really good job, to be honest with you.
Yeah.
Well, thanks.
Thank you.
I kept telling myself this 'cause I'm In the same situation, but you're here for a reason.
Like, he kept you around for-- he could've sent you home, And he didn't, so he clearly wants to, you know, Get to know you better or he wouldn't have kept you around.
I very badly need time with brad tonight Because there's eight other girls here.
I didn't want to lose my chance, though.
You know, we only have so long.
A lot of the girls learned a lot about him today.
So girls have been very competitive.
How was today for you? Today was actually really good.
I'm sorry.
Can we--just a minute more? I didn't get a chance with him last rose ceremony.
Like, we just sat down.
I'm sorry.
Here.
You okay? I'm not gonna, like, get upset.
It's fine.
Don't get upset.
No, alli, I'm really sorry.
No.
Hug? I literally just sat down.
I know.
Okay.
You know He always gets stolen away from me.
Every time I've been talking to him, he's been stolen from me, And ashley had a one-on-one, and she doesn't get it.
A minute later, ashley walks over and steals him.
Like, seriously? You were with him for, like, 14 hours On a one-on-one date.
How dare you? Like, seriously, step back.
Right.
I just need to make sure, like, I don't know, You're still Into me, I guess.
I-I don't mean to interrupt.
That's the name of the game, yeah.
I know.
I know.
My god, my good old buddy dr.
Drew-- He opened up a can of worms here.
bye.
He told the women to be engaging.
They're doing it.
I'm good.
each and every one of them is trying to talk to me tonight.
I love it.
Who had one-on-one time? Who went? You went on one.
20 seconds.
20 seconds? What the? We're all-- We're not getting time.
You're gonna--I'm not getting time.
It sucks.
I think fear and frustration Are, like, my two top emotions right now.
Girls are going after him, so it's getting intense.
Why is this tough for me and not everyone else? the door.
Get it.
My heart is, like, racing.
I have been waiting for this day since the second I got here.
I want this date so bad.
Y'all ready? I have butterflies.
my stomach.
"let's hang out together.
Michelle.
" yay! Finally.
oh! Yes! I'm so excited.
Okay, listen, ladies, Tomorrow, big day-- Michelle and brad one-on-one.
Things are gonna change around here.
The competition has begun.
Start packing your bags.
It's been really great knowing all of you, And I wish you all the very best.
Bye.
"let's hang out together.
" It's weird.
Almost all the other cards, It said something, like, about love and then What did yours say? Mine said, "how deep is our love?" Yeah.
Oh, shoot.
Do you really think that? Yeah, "love hurts" and then "love on the line," "love on the line," "love song.
" "love on the line," "love song.
" mine doesn't have "love" in it.
Why didn't he put "love" in mine? Oh, it's probably nothing.
I don't have "love.
" how do you guys feel that it's, like, really late, And the rose is still here, just sitting there, And no one's gotten it yet? I think everybody would love it.
Does anybody think they're getting it? No.
I just can't do this.
listen, ashley, listen.
You-- I don't want to deal with this.
Listen, this is hard for everybody.
dealing with ashley h.
Is exhausting.
She wants the attention all the time from brad, And when she's on a group date And he's kind of giving attention to other girls, She just goes haywire.
This is hard for you now.
Imagine how we felt On the first date, when you got it.
We were all feeling a little bruised.
No, I went--no, no, no, no.
You didn't feel the bruise We didn't? How do you know? 'cause I felt the bruise.
Listen, I--listen.
How do you know how we felt, though? Answer me that.
Whatever.
I don't know you.
You don't, exactly.
Okay, can you listen to me for a second? I can, but I just don't like-- I mean, don't say you know How we feel when you don't.
Listen to me for a second.
Once you had that one-on-one, Everything changes.
And every person that has I absolutely agree with you.
I agree.
The one-on-one will say the same thing.
look at the four girls who have been On three group dates.
Or--or meghan, who's been on two group dates.
I haven't talked to him tonight.
I haven't talked to him tonight.
You have had time.
we're just trying to make you feel like You're not the only one.
Time is dwindling down to get some one-on-one time, And all these emotions are just running wild right now.
Wanna share? Yes, please.
If I wait and wait and wait and don't get a chance To spend that one-on-one time with him, I'm gonna be devastated.
I'm going to admit something.
I want to know that I can fit in your everyday life.
I want to believe that when all of this is over, We could just fit.
I guess that's what all this is about, right? It comes down to two people and Yeah.
Yeah, it does.
I really just-- I'm looking for that person That just, like, is my best friend, That, you know, loves me for me, and I love them for them.
And I am pretty shy Around people that, you know, intimidate me.
I get really nervous being around a guy That, you know, I have a crush on.
It makes me nervous, but I mean, it's really hard For me to admit, but, I mean, I have a crush on you.
Come here to me, please.
group dates suck.
Having the one-on-one time-- it's critical, I think.
Brad and I started off with a one-on-one date, But now I'm a firsthand witness To brad's relationship with all these girls.
I hate this.
It's a little unfair, but I will get that time.
it sucks.
Watching these women connect with brad is not easy.
Everyone thinks they're the only person That has this connection with brad, But the god-honest truth is Our connection is stronger Than any of the connections that he has with the other girls, And I just want him to myself.
I like you, britt Me, too.
A lot.
Let's get back inside.
Can we? Let's do it.
It's a little chilly.
Yeah, it is.
I know.
Guys, I'm sorry.
oh, hey.
Hello.
Hello.
I'm so sorry.
Hi.
No, no.
No.
Perfect timing.
No, that's okay.
Are you sure? That's okay.
Perfect time.
it sucks that I have to see brad kissing britt.
I feel, like, ounces of jealousy and, like, resentment.
Please have a seat.
It's gonna be a problem, 'cause I do feel myself kind of stepping back a little bit In terms of, you know, pursuing brad.
What's up? Retraction.
Retraction, reluctance, second-guessing? No.
It's, like, honestly, I've never experienced All of these emotions before.
But it's hard when, like, the girls come home And, like, talk about their dates.
It sucks.
But it can be fun and exciting, right? Mm-hmm.
For you, yeah, absolutely.
Why would you say that? It's the truth.
Okay.
Like-- now I get frustrated a little bit.
This is what I signed up for.
Okay.
I deserve everything that I'm getting.
What are you getting? I don't know what it is.
I don't know if it's you.
I don't know what it is.
What does that mean, if you don't know if it's me? What does that mean? I think I'm just trying to, like, be defensive.
Why? Like, I just want to say-- Like, it's so much easier if I say, like, "I don't care about him.
Like, it doesn't matter.
" Okay.
Okay.
It doesn't matter.
He's, like, dating everyone else.
I don't (bleep) care.
Like, you know how I felt About you the first night, obviously.
Whatever.
What do you mean "whatever"? What are you doing? That's hard.
I just feel like I haven't felt this way About someone in so long.
Well, why let go of that? I know.
I'm not letting go, but it's just easier To be, like, to--to take a step back.
I'm not gonna let you take a step back.
You know? Please don't.
Listen-- For my sake or--I'm gonna be selfish, but for my sake.
Our first date was perfect.
Mm-hmm.
But every other date was perfect, too.
You gotta hang in there, babe.
I know, I know, I know.
You really do.
I suck.
Mm.
Just don't second-guess this, you know? I don't know what's going on with ashley.
I hung out with ashley the very first night And formed what I thought was one of the strongest connections That I've had in a very long time.
And now I've spent the entire time Fighting to regain that feeling.
I know what I have to do to reassure her that That was real, because no chance in hell I'm gonna give up on ashley.
No chance in hell.
hello.
Hello.
Hey.
How's everybody? great.
I'm happy everyone's here.
me, too.
we're happy you're here.
Okay.
Uh, obviously, there's a rose.
I hate that.
So awkward.
Why? What's so awkward? Talk to me.
No, what's so awkward? Please.
I'll wait.
I'll hear it.
go ahead.
Ash, what are you feeling? What's up? What's on your mind? I said we're ready to deal with it.
Deal with it? we're ready.
Whatever's right.
Now I am put on the spot.
Okay, yeah, I'm gonna change my plan a little bit here.
Do you have a second? Can I take you for a second? Do you mind? Please.
Yeah.
Okay, excuse me real--real quickly.
Got a second? Okay.
All right.
he took it.
He's giving it to her, obviously.
oh, yeah.
No, no, no, no.
It's--it's hers.
it's definitely difficult to know why Brad gives who what rose.
My gut feeling is that it would've been ashley h.
That was gonna get the rose And that him seeing her negative attitude-- It completely changed.
I wanted to pull you away Because you took the chance to tell me That you were intimidated to talk to me, but you still do it.
We have great kisses, And I truly believe you're here for me.
Britt, for the love of god, please, will you-- Britt, will you accept this rose? Furry blanket and all, I will.
I would love to.
Thank you so much.
I never in a million years Would have expected that I'd get the rose tonight.
I'll be safe at the next rose ceremony, And I get a little reminder that he's into me.
It's exciting.
cheers to hanging out with me At my, uh, my little bachelor pad.
how awesome this day has been.
Cheers, ladies.
cheers.
Not a single regret in giving britt the rose this evening.
She's so deserving.
Thank you so much.
Bye.
No, thank you.
I'm feeling frustrated and upset that britt got the rose.
Bye.
You okay? Yeah, I'm good.
I think I may have ruined what brad and I have.
I-I think I did.
How are you? A little emotional, but, you know, totally fine Up until, like, the one-on-ones.
That's when, like yeah, it's not fun anymore.
Exactly.
We had this really fun group date yesterday, And then at the after party, we got some one-on-one time, And that's when things, like, just got emotional for me.
But the truth is, like, I don't know if I'm strong enough for all this.
I feel like I'm so emotionally unstable.
Like, I wouldn't want to be with me right now After everything, you know? I'm having a hard time dealing with, like, all the emotions.
and I think that if I go home tomorrow, It's 100% my fault.
And, like, I know this isn't all--all, like, about me, And, like, I'm sorry if I'm, like, taking up, like time to talk about our feelings? The morning.
It's my day.
It's my time to be with brad, And all anyone has been able to talk about this whole morning Is whatever happened with ashley h.
Last night.
I wasn't there, but I am so sick and tired Of hearing about it all morning, And I'm so excited to get out of the house So I don't have to hear it anymore.
I'm so excited.
I finally get a date with my man, With the guy that I'm here for.
My black eye is not gonna stand in the way Of me having a great date with brad.
Hey.
How is everybody? Hi.
These girls better watch out.
Nothing is gonna stop me today.
Everyone feeling okay? mm-hmm.
Yeah? Ashley, you have a second? Yes.
Real quickly? Do you mind? No.
Okay, please excuse me, really quickly.
Give me one second.
I'm pissed.
It's my day, And whatever issues they had the night before, It's really frustrating that they've gotta hash that out During my time.
it's still your special day.
Mm-hmm.
Mm.
Mm.
I feel special right now.
It's just annoying.
It's like, really? I don't want to be rude to michelle by any means.
I really don't.
This is her day.
Mm-hmm.
But I had to talk to you.
So here's how I feel.
So we had an amazing first date, okay? Mm-hmm.
Every single time I know I have the chance to see you Mm-hmm.
I'm so excited, I'm so happy, And I'm so scared that we're gonna lose Something that could be really cool.
Yeah, I know, and I'm so scared.
And, like, I'm not--like, I've never been in this situation.
Like, I'm having a hard time dealing with my emotion.
Yeah? And, like, it just wears me out.
I don't know why, Like, I feel this way.
I want you to know that I care for you, And I'm so excited.
That's why I want you to share that feeling With me as opposed to be reluctant I know.
Or what you said in front of dr.
Drew and the girls-- Retracting.
Come on.
You can't do that to me.
I know, I know, I know.
Because, ashley, I'm telling you Mm-hmm.
You and I really do have something very real.
I know.
I know, right? Like, I've realized That I think sometimes, to make myself feel better, I might say things or, like, make a face that, like, Makes me feel secure.
Like, being like, "oh, I don't care.
I don't care.
It doesn't matter.
" but, like, to me, It really does matter.
Look, I care, so please-- I know.
I-I-I feel like you do, I do.
I-I just-- I hope so.
I think every now and again, I get a little, like, you know, Caught up in everything.
Yeah.
But this is so good.
Like, this is honestly gonna give me, Like, the strength to get through, Like, some time.
Honestly.
I hope so.
I feel better.
I feel so much better.
I came here for one reason, and she's taking About 30 minutes of my time to deal with her issues From her behavior last night.
And it's very frustrating That, like, it's become this much of an issue.
In all fairness, though, michelle, the first group date, You kind of had your own little emotional issue Where you had to go off, and it created a scene and-- My--when? You left.
You weren't even there for your scene.
So you went off, and, brad, instead of hanging out No.
With all of us, went to go talk to you.
So I don't see why You don't have more sympathy for her right now.
Because that issue, for me, was a moral issue, And I was genuinely going to leave.
Brad wanted to talk to me and came and talked to me.
I think that's a different issue.
I don't.
You don't think it's different? No, I don't.
I think you were creating a scene By disappearing and not being part of your group thing.
I created no scene.
I walked out quietly.
I did not hurt anyone.
Everyone was like, "where's michelle? Where's michelle? Where did she go?" I'm sorry-- and then he had to go come and talk to you about it Because he's hearing-- no, he chose to come talk to me, Just like he's choosing to talk to ashley.
Okay.
Well, then what's the difference? He's choosing.
It's the time and the place.
Who cares? It's because I did not respond to something out of, like, me Being belligerent and making a huge scene over everything.
I guess we agree to disagree.
That's fine.
hello.
hey.
I know that's awkward.
Sorry, everybody.
I just wanted to get something off my mind.
Hi.
Hi.
Your big day.
Big day.
so she's sitting over there, just looking like She's just ready to freaking kill somebody.
You ready? Yeah.
Get me outta here.
Okay.
And she just jumps up and, like, basically takes his arm And just jerks him across the room.
Okay.
Bye, ladies.
bye.
And he's like, "oh, okay," You know, and so I'm just thinking, God, hopefully she doesn't act like that on their date And bring it into--I mean, actually, hopefully she does, Because he'll see what she's really like.
Okay.
Okay.
Look at my eye.
It looks so much better.
You know, like, I woke up and had a black eye.
I kicked my own ass in my sleep.
You might have.
If I don't get the rose because brad was still dealing With ashley h.
's issues, I would elbow ashley h.
In the face.
I was really excited about today and Me, too.
Everyone's just been talking about what happened last night, Like, all morning, and it's just, like, kind of a downer.
My date starts with still dealing with ashley h.
's issues.
My name was on the date card, not ashley's.
It's my day, And that was a really bad way to start off my day.
I'm sorry that I went in there and had to talk to ashley.
Thank you for saying that.
No, I understand, like I had to talk to ash, you know? No, I understand.
Okay.
And so I'm trying really hard Just not even to think about ashley h.
And to just focus on my relationship with brad.
This is where you live! This is where I live.
Yes, so close.
I'm so excited I have the chance to show you where I live.
When I realized that we were Driving up into his driveway, I was so excited Because now I get some alone time with him at his house.
Ooh.
Look at that view.
Ohh.
This is amazing.
This is totally my style.
Good.
Like, I could sit out here, like, and talk to you all night.
like, I've been, like-- oh,.
What is it? I'm going to kill you.
What? What are you gonna kill me for? Where are you taking me? Where are you taking me? We do have to get to our next destination.
Okay, that's cool.
That's cool.
That's really cool.
You gotta be kidding me.
Just don't make me jump out of it.
After such a stressful morning, I was so ready to get in this helicopter and fly away.
Where in the world are you taking me? It's better than spending the day at the house, isn't it? Oh, you have no idea.
You have no clue.
Ladies, see ya later.
It was so exhilarating To look down at the beautiful scenery below us And have brad right next to me and holding my hand, And it was amazing.
See downtown l.
A.
Straight ahead? Oh, yeah.
As we're flying into downtown l.
A.
, You see all these tall buildings, skyscrapers, And I could care less about the view at that point.
It was like, please tell me what we're doing.
Nervous? You okay? Yeah.
No, I'm freaking out right now.
Why am I landing on a very high building right now? safest place to land.
this is beautiful.
I love it.
I swear on my life, I'm gonna throw up.
Okay, you want to look over real quick? No.
I don't think I should.
No? Okay.
Really? Should I? Well, I wanted to show you the view.
And also, you see that pool down there? Yeah.
So we're gonna have dinner down there.
What do we have to do to get to dinner? We're gonna rappel to that pool on the side of this building.
We're gonna do what? We're gonna rappel down the side of this building.
I'll be right here.
You're terrified.
I don't--uh, oh! You okay? No? I'm really afraid of heights.
All right, okay.
I'm freaking out.
This is a really big fear of mine.
I don't know if I can get through this.
Truly, I don't.
Have you looked down yet? Don't.
Okay, don't look down.
I don't want to look down.
I'm just looking at you, Make sure you're okay.
This is crazy.
Are we crazy? We're a little bit crazy, yeah.
We're crazy right now.
Like, this is crazy.
I can't.
I'm freaking out.
I can't do this.
There's no way.
trying to be tough in front of michelle.
I can honestly say this is the scariest thing I've ever attempted to do in my entire life.
Since the last time I was on "the bachelor," I have faced so many fears, And by facing my fears, I've learned a lot about myself.
So I'm gonna see if I can help her face her fears, Get through them.
I'm hoping that she can trust me.
If and when we hit the ground floor, Michelle and I-- we're gonna be a lot closer.
By the time we get halfway down, We're gonna be dancing on that building.
Yeah.
step.
what is that? that's what you're gonna be standing on.
I'm gonna be standing on this? All right, babe.
Babe! I've gotcha.
I'm gonna-- I'm showing you it's--it's okay.
Whew! you're good to go.
okay? It's okay.
Holy.
it was, like, I needed to choose.
I'm either gonna do this or I'm not gonna do this.
There's a moment when you're falling in love Where you really have to just let go, and you decide that, If you're going to just be vulnerable and let it go Or if you're not, and I feel like, you know, This is definitely, definitely a leap of faith for love.
Oh, my.
I've got you.
You can do this.
You're doing great.
You are doing great.
Don't even look down.
Can you believe we're doing this? What are we doing? I know.
See? Look at you.
You're a pro.
We are scaling a wall.
We're lucky enough to scale the wall.
All in the name of love.
See? You're doing great.
You're moving quickly.
So are you, babe.
Okay, come here to me.
Mm.
Ah.
Come here.
there we are, like, on the side of a building, And then we kissed.
It was the kind of kiss Where it was like, okay, like, this is real.
I'm so proud of you.
Look at you.
You're the pro.
Let's go.
I'm so glad I'm with you.
I'm so glad I could make you feel better.
I know.
You really did.
You okay? I--there's no way I could've done that without you.
I really needed to find that inner strength And conquer this fear, and not only conquer this fear, But do it with the most amazing man.
Look at you.
Look at you.
It was the most amazing experience of my whole life, And I'm so glad that I found that strength to do it.
almost there.
Whew.
You did so great.
I did.
Help me.
Oh, my god.
You did it! So did you.
We did it! it was an incredible feeling of accomplishment, To be here with a woman that I'm so attracted to, And we faced, literally, Our biggest fear together and overcame it.
Look what we just did.
It was absolutely A overwhelming bonding experience.
Do you know how proud of you I am? Ohh! We did it.
Look.
Together, we did it.
It's one of the best things I've ever done in my life.
Best first date ever! Scariest first date ever.
after having gone through something so deep, I am confident in a future with him, Solely from rappelling off of a building.
what are you doing? My god, that feels good.
Okay, listen, you have to promise me this.
Okay.
Promise.
You can never rappel off a building with anyone else.
Okay? That's the easiest promise that I can ever make.
Pinkie swear.
Pinkie swear.
So cheers to you.
no, to us.
To us.
To us.
what we went through today is mine and mine alone.
None of the other girls back home can even compare To what I've been able to share with him today.
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" Please look at what we just rappelled off of.
That was one of the scariest things I've ever done.
Me, too.
Like, hands-down.
I'm glad we did it together, though.
But we did it.
Together.
My heart's pounding right now Because I just rappelled off of a big building.
That was something that he and I will only be able To share together, and it was the most amazing experience.
It's hard to really explain, but on a very real Level, Like, I know that I'm supposed to be here.
I've just felt really good about it.
Yeah.
You're a mature woman.
I mean, you--you've been through some things.
So for you to say that, I hope you mean that.
Oh, I 100% mean it.
Can I ask you something? Yeah.
Uh, since the divorce Uh-huh.
Sorry to bring it up-- but since then, Have you brought anyone else around your daughter brielle? Has she met any other man? Um, the few people that I've dated since then, I want them to know brielle because she is Such a big part of my life.
Do you know what I mean? Yeah.
I wanna meet her.
Is that-- is that very forward to say? No.
Really? No.
No, not at all.
Okay.
From you, no.
Well, I'd love to meet her.
I would love for you to meet brielle.
Brad is definitely the kind of man Who would be very good at being a great example to my daughter And being supportive of everything that she does And everything I do.
Are you scared? This is what I wanna ask you-- Are you scared that you aren't gonna find someone again? Ooh, that's a good one.
Honestly, I feel really confident That's something's going to happen at the end of all this, And I'm going to realize That I made the best decision in my life.
So do I think about it? Yeah.
I-I will say this, that at the very last day, If I'm standing there and there's two women Mm-hmm.
That I care strongly for, but I don't see forever-- Marriage, daily life forever-- I'll walk away again.
Are you really ready to get married in your life right now? Yeah.
I wouldn't be here if I wasn't.
I believe you, but, like, for me to get through this, Like, I just have to stay focused.
Yeah.
You know, it's hard for me to hear about these other girls Who are going out with you and, you know, I don't-- I personally Don't see you with any of them.
I just Is that so? I don't.
I honestly can look you in the eyes and say that.
I see you with me.
I don't see you with any of them.
You know, I didn't really want to get involved In the whole thing with michelle and all of her craziness, But she just kept escalating it and escalating it, and it's Like, you see her there, and you see, like, The twitching start to happen and, like, the eyes start she was, like, out of her freaking mind.
Oh, yeah.
Like her eyeballs were gonna pop out of her head.
It's like (hums hermann's "the murder" from "psycho") I have to say, she scares me.
She really scares me.
She scares me.
And just how aggressive she is and how she, like, Grabbed his arm and was like, "get me outta here.
" It was really, like, super aggressive, kinda weird.
Weird.
But whatever.
I mean, I'm gonna let her dig her own grave, And she's totally gonna do it if she keeps acting like that.
Oh, I agree.
I feel like she'll just blow herself out eventually.
If it's not tonight, it's gonna be eventually.
No, that's how I feel, too.
She's not gonna be the final girl that brad ends up with, And if--and if she is, then brad's not the right guy for me, That's for sure.
Yeah.
You and I seem to have An intense connection That's real, that, you know? Mm-hmm.
So a lot of thoughts right now.
I feel the same thing you feel.
I hope.
You know, and for me, it's very real.
and it's, you know, exciting And it's beautiful and it's scary, And all we can do is kind of just explore it.
Just--will you excuse me one second? Yeah? Mm-hmm.
I am so ready to fall in love and get married.
I want more kids, I want an amazing husband, I want to progress with that part of my life, And I really want that to start here.
And hopefully, brad realizes that it's time To start making big decisions.
You.
So nice.
This is an easy one-- An amazing bond, I think you're an incredible woman.
So, michelle, Please, please will you accept this rose? Of course.
So nice.
Thank you.
Please kiss me.
There was no question that michelle was getting that rose.
I can see my life with michelle working out very well, Day-to-day life.
Me taking care of her daughter brielle, Hopefully, even more kids-- I see this happening.
I do.
all this really does is leave me wanting more.
I can't wait till I see him again And I can't wait till the time we have To just spend with just us alone.
And I think it's definitely time for all the girls to go home.
He is mine.
Coming up I didn't expect to come in and feel this way, And it scares me to death.
I feel like when I'm with this guy, it feels Really special, but then everyone feels that way.
emily, do you have a second? Can I grab you really quickly? Shut up! Oh, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
You are so sweet.
I think that all the girls are kinda feeling, like, A little jealous.
why am I crying? it feels like a punch in the stomach.
I have a rose going into tonight, but for me, it's not Just about tonight.
I'm talking about the rest of my life.
Aha.
Hey.
How you doing, man? How's progress? Uh, it's coming.
It's coming along.
Thanks for coming by.
jamie is my therapist, and I need his help.
This week I had yet another great week of dates, Some strong connections, strong.
So I really need jamie to come help me sort some things out.
I really appreciate his advice.
I use it every single day.
The last rose ceremony I went to right after we had talked-- That was the best cocktail party I've ever experienced.
I had so much fun, so many different, Profoundly better conversations.
No kidding.
I really did.
So you're--so you're more-- and I'm happy to hear.
So you're more present Absolutely.
And they're feeling it.
The women are feeling it.
Absolutely.
Yeah.
Okay, so the good news is you've learned how to be aware of you.
Right.
What--what--what are some of the levels Down there, what you're feeling? So I'm a guy, if I'm dating a woman, I take things really slowly.
I'm talking just kissing, of course, But even that, to me, is a big deal.
And, you know, we're having These intimate one-on-one conversations, And I want to show the women how I feel, And of course, sometimes that happens by kissing her.
And then I'm walking right into another one-on-one conversation With a woman I really like, and I'm expected To do the same thing.
It's driving me crazy.
When you say, "I'm expected to," what do you mean? Well, when I say, "I'm expected"-- Who's expecting? Who's expecting you to? Well, of course the women, um, I'm sure, want that, Because it is a sign that a connection's being formed.
And on dates, you kiss women, of course.
I get it.
All right, well, look, you gotta knock it off.
Yeah? The expectation is in your head.
You've got to take a risk, brad.
You gotta let go all of that.
Right.
Your purpose is to choose the right woman for you.
Yeah.
How are you gonna know that unless you deeply interact With all of them? That includes being romantic.
Yeah.
And whoever you feel a connection to, You've got to explore it fully, full-on.
Right.
If there's chemistry, allow the chemistry to come out.
If you want to kiss 'em, go for it.
Yeah.
And if they want to kiss you, fantastic.
Yeah.
I needed that validation from jamie to tell me, Hey, look, it's okay to have feelings for different women.
Thanks again, man.
A pleasure, man.
Look, if you need me, you call me.
You're not gonna find the true one if you don't allow yourself To feel different feelings for multiple women.
Go with it.
I appreciate it, buddy.
Cool.
I'm very excited.
Like, I feel, like, I feel nervous.
I don't know.
The dynamic in the house has definitely changed.
The emotions are running high, and girls are getting upset, And there's jealousy happening, And there's insecurity happening.
I hate saying it, but I'm really excited to have a rose tonight.
I mean, I feel like for the first time, we had A little bit of a spark, and I'm excited where that could go.
This week, I ended up having an amazing one-on-one with brad And getting to spend hours upon hours with him.
And I'm so glad that I have a rose tonight.
I just can't wait till I get to see him again.
My feelings are just growing more and more, And I'm really starting to fall for this guy.
there he is.
Well, hello, everybody.
Whoa! Hello.
How is everyone? good.
One collective scream, please.
Hello.
hey! Thank you.
It feels like with every cocktail party, I get one step closer to meeting my wife, So I need to use my time tonight very wisely.
I get nervous.
Why do you get nervous? I don't know.
Well, I haven't-- you can't get nervous around me.
So I want to pull aside A few girls that didn't get dates this week.
I just want to reassure each of them everything's good.
How have you been? I haven't seen you.
I know.
I'm keeping steady.
Yeah.
I feel that I've just been consistent in this whole thing, And I kinda came Into tonight secure in what we have already I hope so.
Knowing that I think you want to get to know me more, too, And I definitely want to get to know you more.
All I can say is, I'm so glad you're Here.
Even if it's just a glance, You always have this very comforting look, And so I'm just here to say thanks, And there's very much an understated connection.
You know, I really enjoyed that I was able to, like, You know, like, be up in your arms through our last date.
I loved it.
So I thought it'd be cute If maybe I would go, "one, two, three," And then you'd pick me up like you did last time? I can do that.
I would love to do that.
Yeah.
I'm gonna take off my shoes.
Excuse me.
So it's gonna be the "one, two, three.
" That's like our thing now.
One, two, three.
Let's do this.
Come on.
Ahh.
And a kiss.
brad is amazing.
Thanks.
I was so reassured.
I almost needed that reassurance from him, Because I really didn't know exactly where he stood, But he definitely clarified everything for me.
How are you? I'm good.
I'm like, I'm good.
No, no, no.
I w-- you know something? what? Okay, I'm gonna say this on a serious note.
Okay.
Not trying to be funny.
I greatly admire the fact That you are who you are, that you don't need to be In the middle of the group of girls dancing in a hot tub Right.
To make yourself, uh, valid.
Okay, so I like all of that.
Yes.
I keep wanting to get I know.
Deeper? Uh, yeah.
Yeah.
I know.
And I have, like, a wall up, and it's--it's a problem Yeah.
For sure, and it's been a problem in the past.
Can't have that.
Take it from a guy who knows.
I know.
I know, and I'm trying.
I know.
I'm really, really trying, and it's hard.
It's just, like, I'm, like, protecting myself, I guess I know.
Especially--I feel like a lot of the girls here Have let all their guard-- like, walls down They have.
Which I don't think that's good either Right.
Right.
Because then after one date, they're hysterically crying, Because, you know, now you're on a date with someone else.
Instead of, you know, protecting yourself, Why not just go all in? What if along the way, You meet a fairly decent guy, and you guys end up together? meaning me.
Mm-hmm.
Okay.
I was like, where are you going with this? yeah.
No, meaning me.
Of course I mean me.
Okay.
Okay.
Okay.
I just--I mean this when I say own this as your experience, Because you never know what could happen.
I know.
Having a conversation with brad is easy.
Like, he's a nice guy.
The conversation flows.
I think after having this time Alone with him, I feel more confident about getting a rose, So I'm excited about the rest of this journey.
I don't know what else to say, so Okay.
No, this is--this is good.
This is good.
I've been sitting in this house all week.
I haven't seen him.
Nothing.
I look at how he is with everybody else.
Absolutely.
You know, but I think it's hard, in this situation, Not to compare with everybody else and, you know, I mean-- hello.
hello.
hi.
You look so nice.
so do you.
Well, thank you very much.
Emily, do you have a second? sure.
Can I grab you really quickly? Sure.
All right, will you excuse me, everybody? This way.
All right.
But I have something for you here.
And I'm going to grab this guy.
Ahh! shut up! Oh, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Come with me, please.
You are so sweet! he has something for her.
What was it? It was a-a basket of, like, pillows and blankets.
it was like a wine You are so sweet to do that for me.
Ahh! that's not fair.
Do you think he has a ring in that basket? you know, it was a little hard to watch.
It was kinda confusing.
Like, okay, whoa, do you wanna get married right now? Ha! I mean, it definitely is discouraging when you see They've already had one-on-one time together, And some of us have not had a date.
I just feel like, I think tonight, 13 girls should go home.
There should be one rose.
actions speak louder than words.
I think it make a huge statement to all of us, That wow, he is really into emily, And it was definitely a reality check.
It was an ego check.
Um, and I just, I don't know, It was slightly shocking.
The kissing thing I-I came to expect.
I didn't really expect that, though.
I didn't expect him Mm-hmm.
To call somebody out and have a whole magical moment set up.
You know, a lot of the stuff, you prepare yourself for.
You prepare him to pull someone aside.
You prepare yourself for him to kiss other girls.
You don't prepare yourself to watch him pull out a gift For another girl and a whole setup.
Here I am thinking I'm finally gonna feel special with him, And I don't.
It feels like a punch in the stomach.
Like, we're all here for the same reason, And I-I hate it when people sit there and be like, "oh, well, she's gonna win.
" like, then why am I here? well, it sounds like he had something Completely planned for her planned.
Mm-hmm.
yeah.
Which makes me feel I think that all the girls are Kinda feeling, like, a little jealous of emily.
If I didn't have such an amazing date with him, I probably would be a lot more upset by this.
But still, we're all kind of left feeling a little bit like, "why didn't he think of that for me?" Okay, so How about right here? Sure.
I wanna recreate something.
Hold on.
Ohh! Yeah, bear with me, really quickly.
I've been looking forward to seeing emily all week.
She did not get a date this week, And emily means a lot to me.
I don't want her to feel forgotten.
My goal tonight is to reestablish the connection That emily and I have.
We're recreating Why are you doing this? Our little vineyard date.
Because it was so perfect.
In my mind, she deserves so much more than just A one-on-one conversation at a cocktail party.
Do you mind sitting there? Are you gonna be comfortable? This is fine.
I'm gonna do everything in my power to let emily know That I care about her greatly.
How are you? I'm doing well.
Yeah.
I'm doing well, yeah.
I wanted to talk to you.
I've missed you badly.
I missed you, too.
It's important to me for you to know You've been on my mind, quite a bit, actually.
Well, thank you.
I've obviously, You know, been thinkin' about you a lot, And I'm just really excited to be here.
Definitely after last week, I feel like I'm--I'm so much more excited to be here.
Are you? For sure.
Mm-hmm.
That date, to me-- and I'm trying to recreate it-- Well, it couldn't have gone better.
So I agree.
I had a great time.
I hope so.
I did.
The gift, "I have something for you.
" and then We all saw this big old basket.
well, you have a rose.
You're okay.
Yeah, really.
Like, so I have a rose to get me through one more week of this, But if it's not anything in the end, It's, like, why spend another week? I have a rose going into tonight, But for me, it's not just about tonight.
I'm talking about the rest of my life.
And so you start second-guessing yourself And feeling a little insecure, and thinking, am I crazy to have These feelings that I have for him If he seems to, you know, care for another girl? You don't feel special? No, not at all.
You can go-- It's, like, I felt really special on our one-on-one.
It was great, and it was, you know, all these things That I-I thought, and it was like, wow, this could be it.
And then you see that, and you're like "I feel dumb.
" mm-hmm.
Have you talked to your little girl at all? Um, I called yesterday Okay.
And, um, she was asleep, but she's fine.
I left her little presents for every day that I'm gone, so-- did you really? Oh, yeah, even just, like, little dollars for presents And, like, little notes for her lunch box every day.
When I did talk to her, she said, "now, mommy, um, how long are you gonna be gone for?" And I said, "well, I don't know yet, sweetheart.
" And she said, "well, I really like the presents, So if you're gone for a while, it's totally cool.
" really? I'm like Pretty confident woman if you bought a lot of presents.
Well, I left enough for God knows how long.
okay.
I wanted to cover my bases, Or else I'd be in the doghouse when I got home.
no, you should be confident.
Well, thank you.
I'm having a great time.
Yeah.
I hope so.
Thank you for doing this.
It really means a lot to me.
All right.
Cheers to you.
I'll help you up.
This was very, very sweet.
Thank you.
Oh, you're worth it.
Well, thank you.
I hope I can live up to all this.
I mean, I don't want to go interrupt that.
I feel like, no, I can't do that.
Nobody wants to.
It's like a big bubble around there.
And he doesn't have that for anybody else here.
You know that.
There's nothing else planned for anybody else.
And we were already seeing this with them Of course.
Mm-hmm.
So this, like, reassures Their love? I don't know.
Yeah, I know.
Oh, no, no, no, no.
Oh, god.
I mean, maybe, you know, we are th--I don't know.
thinking that-- why am I crying? it's stupid.
No, it's not stupid.
It is stupid.
I'm just, like, pissed.
You had a It just feels like actually I don't blame you for being pissed.
I'm pissed, and I didn't even go on a one-on-one, so I-- it just-- It's hard when you feel like you have something that's Unique or good and all that, and then it's just like, Somebody just kind of, like, punches you in the stomach Mm-hmm.
And it's like, oh, okay, thank you for making me feel Like that was very cheap.
It's emotional, because, you know, you start to develop Feelings for brad.
I had a one-on-one date with him.
I felt like what we had was special, And it's hard to be reminded that he has special things With other people, too.
It's tough, because you want To believe that he feels for you what you feel for him And that there's a possibility of a future together.
can you excuse me, please? I don't know.
Hello.
Sorry.
I'm interrupting, I know, but Uh, is that okay? Yeah, of course.
Do you mind? No.
Okay.
this whole situation has been A new experience for me, You know, coming out of being divorced, And right now I'm feeling very awkward.
I feel totally out of my element.
it's so scary.
I feel like the biggest fool.
It's like my logical side is being, like "what are you doing?" you know? Like, "you're so stupid.
Like, why are you even here?" And then my heart is like "give it a chance.
" and it sucks.
Um, you been okay? You know, I need to talk to you about something.
I told you, you can talk to me about anything.
Okay.
What's up? So I just-- I'm kinda concerned Okay.
Because I feel like, you know, I'm seeing you Make connections with certain girls That I feel are emotionally unstable Okay.
And it concerns me, Because I feel like that's not who I am, And I'm like, god, you know, is he--am I not--is that-- I mean, is he not gonna pick me because he feels like maybe I'm not emotionally weak enough To be able to, you know, be so needy, you know? And, um, it scares me, because I'm feeling like I-- I'm feeling for you really, really strongly, And I want you to make me feel comfortable enough So that I can fall in love with you, and I'm just--I'm-- I don't know.
I'm not used to feeling like this.
I didn't expect to come in and feel this way, And it scares me to death.
Please be confident in the fact That I am so wildly attracted To the fact that you're everything That I have not been with in my past.
I love the fact that you're not needy, I love the fact that you keep me on my toes, And I love the fact that you're independent.
Okay? I mean, it's hard to ask you to trust me, But I am asking you to trust me.
No, but I-I will say That I have to trust that you are man enough to be able To get to wherever you need to be on the end of this.
I-- And I'm choosing that.
I'm choosing to trust that.
And I am trusting that, just so you understand.
Let me tell you--well, you're damn right I'm man enough to get there.
"damn right.
" mm, mm, mm! Yeah, you're damn right.
I can say that.
Mm, mm! See? that's what I love about you.
I'm trying to be tough, and you just won't let me.
You just won't let me.
Ohh.
I don't want to see you upset.
I know.
Well, you know how you can make it all better? I've missed the hell out of you.
Let's hear it.
kissing.
Come here to me then.
Mm.
I missed you.
when I'm with brad, It just feels very genuine and easy and real.
Mwah.
Bye.
You good? yes, I'm good.
Are you good? Yeah.
We now have the emotional connection, Which just makes the physical connection that much stronger, And, uh, I'm pretty crazy about him.
hate to break up your party here, brad, but if you would Yes, sir.
Time for another rose ceremony.
this whole thing is emotional, Because it makes you feel like, God, I feel like when I'm with this guy, It feels really special, But then everyone feels that way.
All right.
Thanks, ladies.
But I realize, to keep moving forward, I have to just stop comparing it, And I just need to try to stay focused on what I have with him, So I'm ready to trust my instinct And know that what I have with brad is unique and special.
Ladies, good evening.
good evening.
I just talked to brad.
This is very different Than the last time he went through this.
Part of the reason-- he's a different man.
But I think the major reason is The relationships he now has with you Makes this very difficult.
Chantal, michelle, britt, the three of you have roses.
Nothing to worry about tonight.
As for the rest of you, eight roses to hand out.
Three of you will be going home tonight.
I wish you all the best, and if you're ready, Here's brad.
hi.
Thanks.
hello, ladies.
hi.
I know this has been difficult on most of you, If not all of you, And I truly thank each and every one of you for just Simply being patient with me.
I want you to know, I'm trying to make this as easy as possible For each of you to go through that with me, Because I want to propose to one of you at the end of this.
Ashley s.
Ashley, will you accept this rose? Of course.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thanks.
Thanks.
Alli.
Alli, will you accept this rose? I will.
Thanks.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Emily.
Emily, will you accept this rose? I would love to.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thanks.
Shawntel n.
Shawntel, will you accept this rose? of course.
Thanks.
Thank you.
Thanks.
Lisa.
Hi.
Lisa, will you accept this rose? Yes, definitely.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Jackie.
Jackie, will you accept this rose? Absolutely.
Thanks.
thank you.
Marissa.
Marissa, will you accept this rose? Yes, I will.
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thanks.
Thanks.
thank you.
Ladies, brad, this is the final rose tonight.
When you're ready.
Thanks.
Ashley h.
Ashley, will you accept this rose? thank you.
thanks.
Thanks.
Ladies, I'm sorry.
If you did not receive a rose, Take a moment and say your good-byes.
It was so nice to get to know you.
You, too.
Come here to me, please.
I'm totally bummed out.
I came, you know, across the country Hoping to meet my prince charming and get married, But clearly brad didn't feel anything on his end.
It's a blow to the ego.
Let's be serious.
Maybe I'm not as cool as I think.
Clearly, I probably have some of my own issues.
Maybe my walls are too high, But I think brad really missed out on a great girl.
Mm.
Sucks for me.
Good luck with your journey.
Good luck to you, too.
Thank you.
Very nice to meet you.
it was a big deal for me to put myself out there And to come here.
I absolutely came here hoping to find love.
For me, it just wasn't in the cards.
I want to live a happy life, obviously.
I wanna be in love with somebody, But I don't know when I'm gonna find the right guy.
Hopefully soon.
I'm sick of dating.
I think you are an amazing woman.
I want you to know that.
It was so nice to meet you.
It was so nice to meet you.
So nice to meet you.
thanks.
it's disappointing that I'm going home tonight, But I just wasn't the girl for brad.
Rejection is always hard, But I think that I was true to myself and I think my dad is gonna be So proud of me For being the daughter That he and my mom both raised me to be.
Looking around right now, I'm looking at An absolutely incredible group of women.
This is very real.
This is very, very real, so I said what I meant About proposing.
I hope you guys take that to heart.
We have an incredible week ahead of us, So let's use every second wisely, okay? Cheers.
cheers.
All right.
Cheers, ladies.
next week on "the bachelor" Your first destination on this journey is las vegas.
vegas.
I'm so excited to be here.
today has been so amazing.
I cannot wait to see the look on the ladies' faces When they realize they're not attending this show.
They're going to be part of the show.
this is insane.
you know, we're living the dream.
It's vegas, baby.
Ah.
This is yours.
This is yours.
These are yours.
Oh, no.
I am so living every girl's dream.
Oh, my word.
yeah.
Wow.
no.
eight women.
Just me.
It's much more difficult than I thought.
it really kind of hit me a lot harder Than I thought it would, being at the racetrack.
something's wrong with emily.
Ricky was a race car driver.
I feel like a jerk.
to come here and have to relive it all over again, It just feels like I'm never gonna escape it.
I've met a billion guys Who can't handle my life.
I hate group dates.
you could just feel the whole mood change.
I don't wanna feel this way.
I'm just heartbroken.
this sucks.
if you don't feel for me I want you to send me home.
I'm very jealous.
I think we should go send some girls home now.
Brad is a man babysitting a bunch of little girls.
oh, my god.
It's all coming up next week on I like to dance, but I can't dance That's excellent news.
So please do.
here you go! there's dancing.
Now there is dancing.
yes! I have it! go, girl! I'm right here.
there you go, ash.
Nice! all right, brad! I'm trying.
That's all I got for ya.
I know.
everybody pop your booty! On the count of three, pop your booty.
Oh, for the love of god, can we just dance, guys? I I just wanna dance.
One, two, three.
Pop my booty.
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
pop.
Oh, god! You're All right.
Mm, mm, mm, mm.
That's all I got.
That's all I got.